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Thursday, July 26, 2007

Masturbating Vs. Cheating.

I read a post on my sister's blog, http://lindaikeji.blogspot.com/, on 'Faking Orgasm' and i thought to myself. Why do females fake it? The answer is simple... So that guys can get it over with.
She also talked female circumcision and circumcised girls not reaching orgasm or enjoying sex. I am circumcised and i ENJOY SEX a lot, not just that, i reach orgasm about 85% of the time. Enjoying sex and being circumcised are 2 very different things and one has nothing to do with the other.
A friend of mine once said circumcised girls are supposed to have a better opportunity to enjoy sex and reach orgasm more be cos the rubbish flesh has being cut off thereby making a girl's clit. more sensitive.
Now back to my topic.
Masturbation according to 'Sheri and Bob Stritof' is sexual stimulation (not intercourse) that produces an orgasm. They also say many physicians believe masturbation to be a normal, natural activity that most people engage in throughout their life.

Now what is Cheating in a relationship? Lol. I think cheating is lying and deceiving Ur partner. Sometimes our relationships are not as straight forward as we want them to be but we have a choice a either staying in a loveless relationship or walking away from it.

Very few Africans masturbate, they think it's devilish or whatever..... to me that's bullshit!!!
No one knows Ur body as much as u do, u know the right place to touch, how to stimulate Ur organ to get that amazing orgasm u crave for. So why not?

Anyways, what will u prefer, have a partner who masturbates when u are not there for them or have a partner who cheats?

Check out this site for advise on how to deal with Ur cheating partner, http://dir.yahoo.com/Society_and_Culture/Relationships/Cheating/?skw=what+is+cheating+in+relationships%3F

12 comments:

Stupar99´ers Football said...

I know I masturbates alot, eventhough I had a time off from that not long ago :)I can only agree on what you say love, and say I know you are right baby :p

Anonymous said...

female circumcision is equal to abuse. it is not "rubbish" that is cut away but the clitoris, the part that makes sex feel good. it is barbaric, unnecessary, mutilation, and atrocity when family member hold down a young girl to unhygienically cut off a body part.

Vera Ikeji said...

Dear Anonymous,
1, Circumcision isn't mutilation, and neither is it an atrocity. Circumcision isn't done by holding anybody down.
2,Circumcision is done few days to a week after a child is born. Different cultures in Africa have different ways of doing it, but the practice here in Nigeria is by doing it few days to a week after the child is born so the child doesn't even know whats going on.
3. I am circumcised, still have my clit. AND I ENJOY SEX a lot. So i don't see ur point in saying that the fleshy part(which i think is rubbish) makes sex feel good.
Enjoying sex is relative to different individuals and their partnes. Q.E.D.

SOLOMONSYDELLE said...

masturbate away....

Alain. said...

I agree. Masturbate away. That is safer and a lot healthier. Prevents unnecessary drama.

My 2 cents said...

I am big on self agrandulation as I call it, " made up that word". I'll rather my partner masturbates to my picture than cheat on me anyday.

Vera Ikeji said...

I agree with y'all about prefering masturbation to cheating. Nice word, my 2 cents. Lol.

Anonymous said...

There's no comparison. I'd rather my beautiful Nigerian girlfriend pleasure hersilf than cheat on me. Cheating can cause nothing but trouble in a relationship. It's a quick, definite and permanant way to end a relationship with me, because when it comes to my woman, I refuse to share. It is said "once a cheater, always a cheater". I will make sure my woman knows this and say to her, "Honey if you have the urge to pleasure yourself, go ahead. And if your hand gets tired, let me know and I'll take over." THE PHANTOM

Vera Ikeji said...

@ The Phantom. Noted!

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Anonymous said...

Well said everyone, Im female and have "jacked the rabbit" before. I think it is much better than letting my boyfriend drink the milk before he pays for the cow.....Any one else here interested in keeping their virginity till they are married?

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