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Sunday, February 1, 2009

Please pray for my Uncle, Mr Joseph Ikeji

My Uncle, Mr Joseph Ikeji is in his 70s. He left his home at Alaka Estate on the 14th January, 2009, to visit a friend of his at Iponri Estate, he climbed the pedestrian bridge (with the help of his walking stick), descended it and was going to cross the little plank over the gutter provided by Julius Berger (who has got the contract to build the road on Western Avenue). He put his right foot on the plank, put his stick on the plank, as he was about to put his second foot on the plank, it slipped and he fell into the gutter being built.

I remember that a day before that incident, I complained to a Julius Berger contractor that the plank that was placed over the gutter was dangerous and could hurt someone. His response was that "they didnt place the plank there". The gutter they built is a bit wide, the plank across it however, is thin, and almost weightless. When I put my foot on the plank to cross to the other side, the plank moved, so I quickly jumped. On my way back, I didn't use the plank, I managed to jump the big gutter in my high heels.

Anyways back to the story:
Fortunately, there were passersby who saw him fall. They quickly pulled him out of the gutter before he completely sank in, he lost his walking stick, but that was not all he lost. He lost the use of his voice, his legs and his arms.

My Uncle could not say a word for about an hour, people kept asking him questions but he couldn't reply, he only stared at them. Fortunately, someone who knew him summoned his friend at Iponri Estate, who got to the scene of the accident, surveyed the situation, then called my dad.

My dad got there, called one of his neighbours at Alaka Estate, who drove them back to his crib(Alaka Estate). After about an hour, my Uncle told my dad and everyone there what happened and how he hit his head on the edge of the gutter before he fell in. He could now talk but still couldn't move his hands nor legs.

We were informed about the accident by my dad. I got there after work, but couldn't see him. My dad showered and changed his clothes, my mum fed him, then brought him out into the living room. He could talk at this time but his voice was not strong. I had to bend and move close to him to hear him talk. I suggested they took him to the hospital but his Land lady suggested we waited till the next morning because it was late.

The next morning, my dad took him to LUTH, there, my dad was told that my Uncle may have sprained his spinal cord when he fell, they asked for a cast to be put round his neck, which my dad paid for. The following day, my dad was told by the nurses at LUTH to take my Uncle away cos there was no space there. They advised him to go to Igbobi Orthopaedic Hospital. My dad went there, but there was no space there. My dad went back to LUTH to relay this message but the Nurses insisted that my Uncle had to leave. My dad looked for other alternatives but couldn't find any.He went to different places until late into the night. Tired, he went back to LUTH and begged for my Uncle to remain there until the following day, which they agreed to.

The next day, my dad took my Uncle to R. Jolad Hospital in Gbagada, they admitted him, asked for a N20,000 deposit, which he paid. After my Uncle was given a bed, my tired dad went back home to rest. My mum, sister and dad took turns taking care of my Uncle at the hospital.
I asked my Uncle if there was any improvement but he said NO. At this time, he could neither pee nor pass out excrete.

He kept complaining that his health was deteriorating. I asked the doctor what the problem really was, but he said I should not worry that my Uncle would be well soon. We asked him if he could give something to my Uncle to enable him pee. He said he would provide a pipe that my Uncle could pee through, which he did. On his third night at the hospital, my sister Linda, spent the night looking after him. The following day, my dad visited and was told by the Doctor that my Uncle could not be treated, thus had to be discharged.

Since nothing was done to my Uncle, my dad asked for a refund or the balance of the payment he made, but the cashier declined, instead they gave him a receipt that read: N3,000 for 3 nights, N1,000 for X-rays and N16,000 for professional consultation. WTF??? What fucking professional consultation??? Nothing was done to him...except the pipe that was passed into his dick(which was removed after he was discharged). We only EVER saw the doctor once. The receipt was not even signed. My dad was pissed, he argued a bit, but wasn't in the mood, so he took my Uncle back to LUTH.

At LUTH, they said there was still no space. They went back to Igbobi: No space. So he took my Uncle back home. At 7pm, he went back to R. Jolad to get a referral to go to the General Hospital, but there was no doctor to give him a referral, so he came back home.

Next morning, he went back to R. Jolad, got the referral, went to the General Hospital with my Uncle and Mum...No space. For heavens sake! Why is there no flipping space???

They brought him back home. We were like...what next???(cos his condition was not improving). My dad took him to another private hospital...No space! All this while he still hadn't excreted nor passed urine.

My dad eventually went to a hospital where he could be treated, but they said they couldn't admit him. They gave him some medication and put a pipe in his dick so he could pee. Then they said my Uncle should come back the following day so they could make him pass out excreta.

The following day, my dad took him there(By the way...all these going up and down were done by carrying my Uncle, cos he still can't walk nor use his hands) and he was made to excrete...I don't know how it was done. He felt a lot better after that.

Our nights have not been peaceful for a couple of days now cos that's when he has much pain and discomfort.

We intend to take him to Imo State Teaching Hospital for treatment since all the hospitals here are 'full'.

He is single, never been married, so he is currently staying with us.

I beg ALL of you to PRAY for him to recover as soon as possible cos the pain is becoming unbearable.


Thank you all.


austynzogs said...

Your Uncle will be fine.Lets keep trusting God.There is nothing that is impossible with Him.

austynzogs said...

Your Uncle will be fine.Lets keep trusting God.There is nothing that is impossible with Him.

Anonymous said...

I pray for fast recovery for your uncle..the Lord is his strenght..keep the faith alive. God is good and he will come thru for your family. Take care sweets

Vera Ikeji said...

Thank u very much for ur prayers. He'd be taken to Imo State Teaching Hospital tomorrow morning, by the grace of GOD.

Bibi said...

Hi Vera I hope your uncle is doing better now.. Apart from the sprain on his sppinal cord he might have a bloood clot on his brain from where he struck his head during the fall so I advise that you should request for a CT scan or MRI to be on the safe side. I join my prayers to yours that it all turns out for the Full Recovery

Vera Ikeji said...

Thanks Bibi.

I am gonna post an update on that.

iya Rondo said...

Vera ds is my first time reading ur blog, I pray ur Uncle recovers fast, and by d way, i like u already becos u r so real, will keep comin bak.

Vera Ikeji said...

@ Iya Rondo: Thanks for ur prayers and thanks for the compliment, it brigthened my morning, lol. My Uncle is getting better, he can now use his hands and can sit without assistance,the only thing he can't do is walk, so he is still hospitalised at IMSUTH. Thanks again!

9ja's OT said...

Thank God he is better now, i think you guys should take that up with J. Berger and make sure he sees an occupational therapist to help him get back to walking.

Vera Ikeji said...

Yeah, thank God and thank you for your prayers. He is actually better now, he would be discharged from the hospital on Thursday.

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